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What to Do When You’ve Let Yourself Down (VIDEO)

Blog Everything Else January 24, 2012

Hi Guys! This week’s vlog is all about forgiving yourself when you haven’t done what you said you were going to do, because it’s not until you forgive yourself that you’ll be released from that negativity and then be able to go forth and conquer. The irony is, as you’ll see in the video, I nixed my original vlog that I recorded on Friday because I thought it was too long… alas, this one isn’t any shorter! As we say in my house, Oy vey! Please let me know what you think in the comments below. Forgive yourself, friend! And have a great week!

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4 Comments

Leslie says:

January 24, 2012 at 6:24 pm

Love your blog on forgiveness!
Very inspiring

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- Stacy says:
  
  January 24, 2012 at 9:02 pm
  
  Thx Les! xo
  
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Micki says:

January 27, 2012 at 2:25 pm

I am 65 years old and find that getting older, in itself, teaches a lot, especially what is important and what is not. Some things are just not worth the time and effort to fret about. Anyway, I am learning from your vlogs (see, I just learned what a vlog was) and enjoying them immensely. I can’t wait for your next one! Thanks! Micki

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- Stacy says:
  
  January 31, 2012 at 4:46 pm
  
  Thanks so much, Micki! Let me know if there’s ever a topic in particular you’d like to hear about, and I’ll do my best to deliver!
  
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